Mrs. Kavitha Sivakumar

I used to think many a time why elders in the family are resistant to renewing themselves or refreshing them with what they want or wish to have. Elders in the family like Parents or Grandparents always think of their children or grandchildren many times. They are not even ready to spend a few bucks to renew themselves. Be it buying a dress they like with a little extra cost, a haircut, or some extra stuff they want to do for their soul satisfaction. Do we need to sacrifice everything including the renewal of oneself or refreshing the mind for the sake of Children or Grandchildren? It is not really required and let us live our lives on at least a few occasions. However, we want to live without thinking of others or any family members, obviously without destroying morals. I had a chance to take my mother out to a hotel alone when she visited Bengaluru this Summer. But she really had a concern for her Grandchildren who visited my home along with her. I have never seen my mom fulfil...

Everyone has something or someone in one's life to be emotionally attached to. It can be Mother, Father, Siblings, Grandparents, Doggie, friends, besties, better half, etc. If your loved one is leaving you or staying apart for a few days or a few weeks, your heart starts becoming burdened and your heart melts for them. It is because of the unconditional love you have with them. computer table I had something similar to that. Two days back I disposed of my computer table which traveled along with me for 15 years with a heavy heart. The emotional attachment I have with that table is really beautiful. Everyday morning I start my day by seeing that table.  It is quite lengthy and broad enough to have my one big monitor and two laptops along with my small book library on the table. I have spent many hours at the computer table over the last 15 years of my career. I have cried, slept, and worked with that.  At one point in time, I wanted to have some change. After getting rid of the...